Twins vs. teens

One of the most wonderful things about small children is how transparent they are.  Whatever they think is written all over their faces.  And you usually know what their next thought will be.  That's an uncomplicated mind to observe and admire.

Nathan and Andrew had decided to play with the same toy.  Gramma was quickly in the game  with the thought, "get ready for a distraction."  Before that thought turned into action, Andrew had taken possession (even small children know it's 9/10ths of the law) so Nathan, clearly frustrated, decided his only recourse was to sink his teeth into the problem (his brother).  Gramma, who's brain is now racing at top speed, grabbed Andrew up in her arms and gave him her attention.  Nathan watched in astonishment and unbelief.  How did that happen?  He got the toy and Gramma!  You could see the click in his brain when he decided he had lost round 1 and round 2 and was absolutely not going to let round 3 get the best of him.  He left the room, practially stamping his feet headed for the staircase, scrambling up just as fast as his four legs (he's part monkey) would go.  Now, he had Gramma's attention!  He was 3/4's of the way up when he turned around and laughed, knowing I would be 3 steps behind.

I enjoyed the rainbow of emotions that had just passed before my eyes, remembering my children's teen years.  You saw dark clouds covering their thoughts, but never the clear rainbow of their minds.  If only the biggest problem in teen years was trying to keep them from biting each other.  And if only the troubles would have turned so quickly into laughter.  I didn't notice the rainbow in my children while they were small, because I wasn't aware it was a vision I needed to hold onto in order to get through the lean years.  Grandchildren are the opportunity to live with better vision.

Never drink and drive!

I think I'll just rest here, against Grammpa's legs.  I'll know if he tries to get away.  And he'll protect me from Nathan.

The boys, being true Goedkens, enjoy pumpkin pie for a snack.  They are starting to eat on their own.  Mastery is a little ways off, but some things are worth struggling over.  Andrew keeps an eye on Kitty, while he eats.  Grampa, on the other hand isn't ready for the boys to grow up so fast.  Ryan Joseph used to eat with a wash cloth next to him to clean off his fingers between bites.  At least the boys are spared that.